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Liljuggalette09

OK well I have a boyfriend but I'm starting to like one of my guy friends.....What do I do???!!!!

I really like my bf already but I don't know who to pick....my bf or my friend
Shawn:

Ask yourself: Is it fair to my boyfriend for me to like and flirt with someone else? THEN you need to ask yourself: would I rather have my friend in my life forever, or possibly loose him because we end up breaking up down the road....?

Liljuggalette09:

ok thank u that helps

Shawn:

also take into consideration that you probably like your friend romantically because your boyfriend isn't making you as happy as you think he should be...but when you are with your friend you have a great and fun times. It's possible that you're associating "fun times" with romantic relationships. You've a lot to think about.

Liljuggalette09:

yes I do I'm a middle schooler and well If u can think of anything else it would help thanks for all that u have given me soo far!!!!

2 Cents:

Someone I know has a 16 year old daughter who has a boyfriend and likes another guy. Spends a lot of time with the other guy, but won't break up with her boyfriend. The friend told her to do the right thing. Break up with her boyfriend, or not. But don't keep one hanging while playing with the other one.

Also, how would you feel if your boyfriend was 'friends' with another girl. Changes the whole picture, doesn't it? Good luck.

Liljuggalette09:

yeah thanks

Pete:

I would say that you are too young to have a steady boyfriend and you should just be out there having fun. Spend time with as many boys as you like and don't be in such a rush for commitment. You'll have your whole adult life to worry about that! Take care.

Liljuggalette09:

thanks

Ed:

People are like cars...there's always going to be a newer, better modle out there. But relationships are deeper than car ownership. You have to constantly work on it...even though it tempting to lease and change every 3 years....at some point, you're going to want someone to grow old with. Make up your mind, and stop blowin in the wind.

Liljuggalette09:

OK the first part sounded fine but the end sounded rude!!!

Francie:

Well, you don't want to hurt your boyfriend. It's not a "who do I pick" situation since you already have a boyfriend.... Does your friend show interest in you? If he does, then you need to break it off with your boyfriend since it's not fair to him that you have a secret crush, or just don't have any boyfriends and have fun just hanging out. Believe me, you will have pleeeeeeeenty of time for relationships! Just enjoy life and your friends right now and don't stress! = )

Liljuggalette09:

ok thanks that helps!!!!

Francie:

I'm glad it helped... I was there many many years ago and I remember what it was like and now, having a daughter, I try and help as much as I can because I know my daughter one day will have the same issues and I will want to be there to help her through it. It's not easy, I know, but seriously, have fun with all your friends now and be careful with those boys! And remember to always be yourself because confidence is one of the most attractive traits! = )

Liljuggalette09:

thanks that was really helpful...I might see him 2-nite so I'm gonna comepletely forget about my friend and worry about him

2 Cents:

Someone I know has a 16 year old daughter who has a boyfriend and likes another guy. Spends a lot of time with the other guy, but won't break up with her boyfriend. The friend told her to do the right thing. Break up with her boyfriend, or not. But don't keep one hanging while playing with the other one.

Also, how would you feel if your boyfriend was 'friends' with another girl. Changes the whole picture, doesn't it? Good luck.

Liljuggalette09:

yes thanks that really helps

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